So I'm having sort of a moral dilemma, or ... some kind of a dilemma. You see, today I found out something about a very good friend of mine that I didn't know before-- I had no IDEA about this... event, I should call it. I don't think they intentionally kept it from me, like in some sort of a vicious way, but it seems they purposefully left out this fact. (So they didn't lie to me, per se.) I would confront the person, but... I don't think I was supposed to know about this event, at least not yet. It probably wasn't much, maybe something they did on a whim and now they regret, but it's something I feel I should have been informed about, and the only way I learned about it was by sleuthing on my own. It's kind of ill-gotten knowledge, I suppose.

What should I do? I'm thinking of dropping subtle hints, seeing if I can get the info out on it's own, but I don't want to slip up and make it obvious that I already know, and risk making this certain person very angry at me. Though, who knows, maybe they wouldn't be angry, maybe they'd be relieved cause they didn't know how to tell me...

I don't want to go into any details in my journal, but if one of you REALLY wants to know what this event and circumstances are, I'll gladly tell you in IM or Note if I feel comfortable telling you.

It's been on my mind for the past few hours, and in that short time it's already eating away at me. I don't necessarily feel betrayed by the person, but I'm just kind of upset that maybe they didn't have that kind of trust in me, to reveal this past event.

Sigh. I was working on a drawing, then I found this out, and it totally bummed me out.

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